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Today I Miss …

April 17, 2020September 17, 2024 notsosexinthecity2-Minute Read, masturbation, sex toys

It suddenly struck me today just how much I missed my vibrators. Well, one specifically: the Rampant Rabbit. I’ve talked about the toy a lot before, and I’ll probably talk about it a lot more in the future even though there are new toys to tell you about, but my Rampant Rabbit is the toy I’m missing the most right now. I’m missing it so fucking much. I’ve wanked a lot during lockdown, but they’ve been secret, silent, stolen wanks in the shower, or really quietly at my desk when…

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Wandering Hands

March 28, 2020March 28, 2020 notsosexinthecityAnxiety, Body Image, Borderline Personality Disorder, confidence, depression, Fingering, masturbation, Overthinking, self esteem, Sex Deprived, Weight2 Comments

I have a question: If my boyfriend is that disinterested in sex that we’re not having any of it [again], how come I keep waking up in the middle of the night with his hands down my pants? Last night, for example. This morning, actually. 4:38 am, according to the clock. I found myself risen from my slumber, still in the dark, roused by something that was nice and annoying all at once. It took me a few moments to work out what it was: Bear’s hands. Bear’s hands rubbing…

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Edged

January 16, 2020September 17, 2024 notsosexinthecityEdging, masturbation, Toys

I’m blaming today on you. You. Yes, you. You know who you are. Today is your fault. The reason I’m tapping up this post right now? You. You kept talking about edging like it was this big thing that I was missing out on — and wasn’t I missing out on it? Not getting what I wanted has never been something I’ve been brilliant at dealing with, my impatience driving me to cum even when I’m told not to, so I’ve never paid much attention to the idea of not…

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Under the Lights

December 26, 2019September 17, 2024 notsosexinthecityfantasies, Fingering, In Public, Kiss, masturbation, orgasms

“I love to watch you dance under the lights,” he said to me, right before he leaned in and kissed me on the cheek. I wanted more than anything for his lips to make contact with mine. I almost puckered mine together in hopeful expectancy, but I knew he wouldn’t kiss me the way I really wanted him to. “Dance under the lights for me a little more. I’d like to take a photo of you here,” he said to me, as he fumbled with the camera in his hand…

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You Couldn’t Wait

December 10, 2019September 17, 2024 notsosexinthecitycunnilingus, fantasies, Lingerie, masturbation, orgasms, Tease

“I got a bad idea, how about we take a little bit of time away?” The Ariana Grande song playing in the background was pretty ironic considering the situation she’d found herself in. You’d just told her those words that make her weak at the knees and damp between the thighs: “I need you”, and she knew the feeling; she needed you too. That’s why she smiled when you half-whispered those words into her ear. It was barely audible above the loud noise of the music and hum-drum of the…

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How Good Was Your Wank Today?

May 4, 2014 notsosexinthecityexplicit, girls, life, love, lust, masturbation, musings, Sex, sex tips3 Comments

Right, come on guys and girls. Let’s have a show of hands here, shall we? How often do you genuinely masturbate? Wank? Jerk off? Choke the chicken? Whatever you like to call it – how often are you doing it? And how are you doing it? I had a conversation with a male friend (as always) this afternoon, and he told me that was soooo horny, he had already masturbated three times that day. Now, I appreciate that I was off to a running start with my two wanks, but…

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The Art of Blowjobs: A Plan

February 20, 2013March 5, 2020 notsosexinthecityBlowjob, Cumshot, experimenting, fantasies, Fingering, long distance relationship, masturbation, oral sex, orgasms, Soldiers, Tease

Following on from The Art of Blowjobs. I have a plan. One more serious attempt before I give up and accept the fact that my mouth is never going to make One Ball cum. I have an outfit that I know he’s going to love. And by love I mean, *fucking* love. A black sweater dress, figure-hugging, with heeled boots that sit just over my knee. They’d probably be knee-high on anyone else, but I’ve got short little legs that make knee-high boots actually sit just above the knee. Like,…

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Meet Number 24: The Older Guy

January 31, 2013February 17, 2020 notsosexinthecityBooty Call, car sex, cheating, friends with benefits, long distance relationship, masturbation, Soldiers

As I typed his name into the Facebook search box, I knew it was a bad idea. But I did it anyway. Just like I clicked on his face when I found his profile knowing it was a bad idea, and sent him a message. “I was just talking about you the other day. Thought I’d have a little Facebook stalk to see if you were around – and here you are! How are you? It’s been a really long time. I hope you’re well!” I’m such a fucking moron.…

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Wank-a-Holics Anonymous.

December 18, 2012February 1, 2020 notsosexinthecitylong distance relationship, masturbation, Sex Deprived6 Comments

I haven’t had sex in two weeks. [One Ball, obviously.] Two weeks and two days if you want me to get really exact about things. I’m such a frustrated little bunny today. Super frustrated. Like a walking erection but with a vagina. That doesn’t even make sense, does it? Meh. Whatever. I’m SUPER frustrated. I’m used to going without sex for weeks at a time. I was an Army WAG to start with and that meant going without sex for four or six months at a time, sometimes. Plus I…