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You Can Only Have One Position … [Curious Cat]

March 30, 2020September 17, 2024 notsosexinthecityBody Image, Favourites, First-Time Sex, Missionary Position, orgasms, Q&A

Anon asked: You can only have sex in one position for the rest of your life: which is it and why? I know I’m going to sound SUPER boring when I say this, but I’m a big fan of the missionary position — and there are many, many reasons why I like it so much. Firstly, it’s so “tweakable”. With a simple shift of a limb, the missionary position goes from being boring to … well, definitely not boring. I can throw one of my legs over his shoulder to…

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Under the Lights

December 26, 2019September 17, 2024 notsosexinthecityfantasies, Fingering, In Public, Kiss, masturbation, orgasms

“I love to watch you dance under the lights,” he said to me, right before he leaned in and kissed me on the cheek. I wanted more than anything for his lips to make contact with mine. I almost puckered mine together in hopeful expectancy, but I knew he wouldn’t kiss me the way I really wanted him to. “Dance under the lights for me a little more. I’d like to take a photo of you here,” he said to me, as he fumbled with the camera in his hand…

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You Couldn’t Wait

December 10, 2019September 17, 2024 notsosexinthecitycunnilingus, fantasies, Lingerie, masturbation, orgasms, Tease

“I got a bad idea, how about we take a little bit of time away?” The Ariana Grande song playing in the background was pretty ironic considering the situation she’d found herself in. You’d just told her those words that make her weak at the knees and damp between the thighs: “I need you”, and she knew the feeling; she needed you too. That’s why she smiled when you half-whispered those words into her ear. It was barely audible above the loud noise of the music and hum-drum of the…

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Will You Be My Girlfriend?

July 13, 2013March 19, 2020 notsosexinthecitycar sex, Commitment, experimenting, falling in love, Fingering, In Public, new love, orgasms, sex toys, Sexual Chemistry, Tease

Things have been mostly smooth-sailing for me. In fact, Jock and I just went on our sixth date and I’d quite like to talk about that if you don’t mind? “I won’t have time to go home from work and change, but if you can handle me smelly and slightly exhausted, I’d like to pick you up, grab some food, and have an evening picnic?” he said in his text to me, and I gleefully accepted his proposition. “You have options, though,” I told him. “I’m wearing the cutest dress…

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The Tale of the 24 Hour Third Date

June 29, 2013March 31, 2020 notsosexinthecityAnxiety, Camping, Crushin’, cunnilingus, dating, First-Time Sex, Firsts, In Public, Kiss, Moving On, oral sex, orgasms, Sexual Chemistry

Jock and I went on our third date. It was wonderful. We went camping and all this cute shit happened and YES WE FUCKED AND I KNOW THAT’S WHAT YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW. He agreed to get everything sorted as I had work during the day — and that’s just what he did. He found the cutest little campsite, organised it so that it would be just us on the site, sorted out a tent, grabbed food and beers, and even decorated the tent and surrounding space with solar-powered…

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The Art of Blowjobs: The Bikini Wax That Got Me There!

March 4, 2013March 7, 2020 notsosexinthecityBikini Wax, Blowjob, Cumshot, Firsts, long distance relationship, love, oral sex, orgasms, Pain/Pleasure, Soldiers, Tease4 Comments

So, do you remember me telling you about my little problem with One Ball? I couldn’t make him cum in my mouth, that was the problem. It wasn’t anything big or super problematic or anything, but it was a big deal to me. Well, it’s not so much of a big deal anymore … ? I’ll start at the beginning. I had my first ever bikini wax, peeps. That first rip of the strip from my poor vagina hurt more than I ever could describe to you, and then there’s…

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The Art of Blowjobs: A Plan

February 20, 2013March 5, 2020 notsosexinthecityBlowjob, Cumshot, experimenting, fantasies, Fingering, long distance relationship, masturbation, oral sex, orgasms, Soldiers, Tease

Following on from The Art of Blowjobs. I have a plan. One more serious attempt before I give up and accept the fact that my mouth is never going to make One Ball cum. I have an outfit that I know he’s going to love. And by love I mean, *fucking* love. A black sweater dress, figure-hugging, with heeled boots that sit just over my knee. They’d probably be knee-high on anyone else, but I’ve got short little legs that make knee-high boots actually sit just above the knee. Like,…

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The Riding Crop

February 5, 2013February 23, 2020 notsosexinthecityAnal, Blowjob, Cumshot, cunnilingus, experimenting, fail, fantasies, Firsts, long distance relationship, love, Lubricant, oral sex, orgasms, Pain/Pleasure, Soldiers

“Is that your boyfriend over there?” my work colleague asked me, pointing to the door. “Oh my fucking god, yes it is. Why’s he still dressed like that … ?” On the first night that One Ball was at mine, he decided that he would pick me up from work still wearing his military uniform. “I know you’re not done for another fifteen minutes, but take a look in that bag and give it some thought while I go and grab us a couple of coffees,” was all One…

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Night 1: Electro-Sex

January 7, 2013February 16, 2020 notsosexinthecityElectrosex, experimenting, fantasies, long distance relationship, orgasms, Pain/Pleasure, sex bucket list, sex toys

It’s time, peeps. Following on from my safe-for-work last post, I’m bringing you all of the smutty details from my four days of frivolous fucking with One Ball, and I’m just going to dive right in … NIGHT 1: ELECTRO-SEX One day, a couple of weeks ago, during a steamy conversation with One Ball, I happened to mention a thing that I wanted to try in the bedroom. I’d seen electro-sex kits [electric shock kits?] online and found myself really intrigued by them, wondering just how zazzy those zaps would…