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The Actual Second Date

June 24, 2013March 14, 2020 notsosexinthecityCrushin’, dating, Dominant, fantasies, In Public, Moving On, Sexual Chemistry, single, Tease

Fuck it, I’ve decided to completely ignore the fact that One Ball might be reading my blog and tell you all about my second date with the fabulous Jock. Because he really is totally fabulous. I told you in my last post that he was more touchy-feely this time around; well, there was more kissing this time around too. We parked up to “have a cigarette” which we both knew was code for making out in his car. We’re still playing it cool and not taking things too far, but…

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I Like Slow, Sensual Sex …

June 21, 2013March 14, 2020 notsosexinthecitycar sex, Crushin’, dating, dirty talk, Dominant, fantasies, In Public, Kiss, Moving On, Sexual Chemistry, single, Tease

So, this new guy [Jock] has got me totally figured out already. Well, he hasn’t, but he’s going the right way. We’ve been texting and calling each other in that way that new potential lovers do: constant questions and answers, flirty banter, naughty conversations that you would berate other boys for. I thought I might’ve grown bored of him by now. No sign of that, though. The stuff he’s saying to me is driving me crazy. Whether I ‘like’ him or not, I’m definitely lusting after him. But I’m wondering…

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Advice, Please?

May 15, 2013March 11, 2020 notsosexinthecityBetrayal, Breakups, Crushin’, fantasies, Getting the Ick, long distance relationship, My Best Friend Fetish, Soldiers3 Comments

Right, peeps, I need your help. I feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. I don’t know what to do about One Ball and I. Should we break up? Should I just do it and be done with it? Or is he a good guy that deserves a bit more time? And before you answer that question, I have something to tell you that’ll complicate things even further … I’m starting to crush on his best friend. (As if the My Mr. Grey stuff wasn’t complication…

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The Art of Blowjobs: A Plan

February 20, 2013March 5, 2020 notsosexinthecityBlowjob, Cumshot, experimenting, fantasies, Fingering, long distance relationship, masturbation, oral sex, orgasms, Soldiers, Tease

Following on from The Art of Blowjobs. I have a plan. One more serious attempt before I give up and accept the fact that my mouth is never going to make One Ball cum. I have an outfit that I know he’s going to love. And by love I mean, *fucking* love. A black sweater dress, figure-hugging, with heeled boots that sit just over my knee. They’d probably be knee-high on anyone else, but I’ve got short little legs that make knee-high boots actually sit just above the knee. Like,…

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The Riding Crop

February 5, 2013February 23, 2020 notsosexinthecityAnal, Blowjob, Cumshot, cunnilingus, experimenting, fail, fantasies, Firsts, long distance relationship, love, Lubricant, oral sex, orgasms, Pain/Pleasure, Soldiers

“Is that your boyfriend over there?” my work colleague asked me, pointing to the door. “Oh my fucking god, yes it is. Why’s he still dressed like that … ?” On the first night that One Ball was at mine, he decided that he would pick me up from work still wearing his military uniform. “I know you’re not done for another fifteen minutes, but take a look in that bag and give it some thought while I go and grab us a couple of coffees,” was all One…

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NIGHT 2: Nine and a Half Weeks

January 8, 2013February 13, 2020 notsosexinthecityexperimenting, fantasies, long distance relationship, Lubricant, movies, oral sex, sex toys

The thing about One Ball is that he’s naughty and nice, rolled into quite a good-looking package. He can transform from innocent, naive and big-eyed to red-hot, bitey and passionate in the swiftest of moments. One minute he’s cute and goofy and making me laugh, and the next … he’s definitely not making me laugh, put it that way. “What shall we do tonight?” he asked. “How about a movie and takeout?” I suggested. A few minutes of browsing through the DVDs in my cabinet later, we agreed upon Nine…

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Night 1: Electro-Sex

January 7, 2013February 16, 2020 notsosexinthecityElectrosex, experimenting, fantasies, long distance relationship, orgasms, Pain/Pleasure, sex bucket list, sex toys

It’s time, peeps. Following on from my safe-for-work last post, I’m bringing you all of the smutty details from my four days of frivolous fucking with One Ball, and I’m just going to dive right in … NIGHT 1: ELECTRO-SEX One day, a couple of weeks ago, during a steamy conversation with One Ball, I happened to mention a thing that I wanted to try in the bedroom. I’d seen electro-sex kits [electric shock kits?] online and found myself really intrigued by them, wondering just how zazzy those zaps would…

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I Want to Play a Game: Fucking politics

December 17, 2012February 1, 2020 notsosexinthecitydirty talk, fail, fantasies, MFF, sex bucket list, threesome2 Comments

One Ball and I are playing a game, keeping our sex life nice n’ spicy, if you like. Not that we need that, obviously. We’ve only been dating a couple of months, so it’s not like our sex life has run stale, or anything like that. But he likes games and I like games and one of us had an idea that we should play a game … so, we’re playing it. We each have written down ten things. Sexual things. Things that we want to do, haven’t done before,…