Welcome to NotSoSexintheCity, a UK dating & sex blog!
Mostly written by NotSo (that’s me,) an anonymous dating and sex blogger, plus occasional guest posts.
Covering 14+ years of very graphic, as-it-happens dating and sex detail, plus everything that’s happened to me in more than twenty-five years of dating! It’s not always pretty, I’ve made the absolute worst decisions, and I’ve ignored whopping red flags for the plot… but, hey, no-one ever starts a dating & sex blog because they’re having a great time, do they?
Who am I?
- 40-year-old British dating & sex blogger
- Proud bisexual 🏳️🌈
- Trans-friendly 🏳️⚧️
- Massive oversharer (clearly)
- Feminist (when it suits)
- Foster girlfriend (until the right one comes along)
- Obsessed with the stars (night sky, not celebrities)
- Nature & animal lover
- Vegetarian & Cali sober 🍃
Dating me has been described as:
- “Psyops bullshit”
- “Like dating Google”
- “Best sex of my life!”
- “Felt like walking into a hurricane”
What you’ll get here:
- Dating & relationship advice
- Sordid details of my sex life
- Sex fails
- Erotica books
- Erotic fiction
- Lessons learned
- My dating history (in miserable detail)
- Sex tips
Come and check me out on Twitter (I’ll never call it X) to keep up to date with everything I’m up to.
