Welcome to NotSoSexintheCity, a UK dating & sex blog!
Mostly written by NotSo (that’s me,) an anonymous dating and sex blogger, plus occasional guest posts.
Covering 13+ years of very graphic detail, plus everything I’ve learned in two decades of dating! Its not always pretty, I’ve made the absolute worst decisions, and I’ve ignored whopping red flags for the plot… but, hey, no-one ever starts a dating & sex blog because they’re having a great time, do they?
Who am I?
- 30-something British dating & sex blogger
- Proud bisexual 🏳️🌈
- Trans-friendly 🏳️⚧️
- Massive oversharer (clearly)
- Feminist (when it suits)
- Foster girlfriend (until the right one comes along)
- Obsessed with the stars (night sky, not celebrities)
- Nature & animal lover
- Vegetarian & Cali sober 🍃
Dating me has been described as:
- “Psyops bullshit”
- “Like dating Google”
- “Best sex of my life!”
- “Felt like walking into a hurricane”
What you’ll get here:
- Dating & relationship advice
- Sordid details of my sex life
- Sex fails
- Erotica books
- Erotic fiction
- Lessons learned
- My dating history (in miserable detail)
- Sex tips
Come and check me out on Twitter (I’ll never call it X) to keep up to date with everything I’m up to.
You have been awarded the Addictive Blog Award.
http://myyearoflivingopenly.wordpress.com/2012/10/16/the-addictive-blog-award/
I’m glad I happened upon your blog. I feel as though I’m exactly where you are life-wise. Hopefully we can both learn from each other.
Hi there. Amazing site with some great and funny stories on it – just what dating should be right? I’d like to personally invite you to take part in a dating/writing challenge for charity – if you are interested (or anyone else reading this) PLEASE check out: http://www.onlydates.co.uk/give-a-little-time-and-writing-for-charity/
Hallo! I’ve nominated you for an Inventive Blogger Award:
http://ilikethesmellofnewthings.wordpress.com/2014/01/31/inventive-blogger-award-my-5-nominees/
Congrats!
xx
Love your writing.
Thank you so much! 🙂
How can I get in touch with you?
Stumbled upon your blog last week, and my goodness am I glad I did! “Giving Better Blowjobs Version 2.0” has changed the lives of both my wife and I! Brilliant advice! Keep up the good work!
Hi Chris!
Thanks so much! That’s the best comment EVER! Obviously I want to know more … What was your favourite tip 😉
Glad I could help, I take requests … In fact, I relish them.
Hope you and your wife have hours of fun!
NSSITC
xo
SO glad I stumbled upon your blog. I’ve had a dreadful, excessive, dating history over the last couple of years. I made a list of all the guys I’d met and finally decided to start writing the anecdotes rather than leaving it as a weird list. It’s strangely cathartic to become so reflective- though wincing at some of my behaviours… thanks for sharing your stories.
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