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Talkin’ the Talk

August 5, 2013April 16, 2020 notsosexinthecityAnxiety, children, Commitment, dating, Ex-Factor, Ex-Purge, falling in love, Getting the Ick, love, Moving On, new love, Overthinking, Secret Relationship

Casually, out of nowhere, on our last date, Jock dropped something quite huge into the conversation. “I think I need to tell my ex that I’m with you.” Lolz, wot? We’ve known each other for eight weeks. That’s it. It feels like everything is now moving at warped speed. We’re already throwing the L-word around like it’s a game of ping pong, now we’re rushing into telling the ex. Why? Why’s he gotta tell her already? Why does he need to tell her at all? He continued … “Next weekend,…

Dating Jock One Ball

Date Number Two: An Emotional Goodbye?

June 23, 2013March 14, 2020 notsosexinthecityAnxiety, Betrayal, Breakups, dating, Ex-Purge, fail, Fighting, heartbreak, Lies, Moving On, Privacy, Soldiers1 Comment

One Ball read my fucking blog. Because of course he wasn’t going to let our breakup go by easy. I can’t work out if this is going to be a big fuck-you blog post to him, or a big bye-bye blog post to you lot. I’m battling two very different sides of myself right now. Let me tell you the story of what happened on my second date with Jock. Jock and I went shopping for our second date, stopped to have some coffees, and then he dropped me home…

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10 Things I Vow to Stop Doing in 2013

January 1, 2013February 4, 2020 notsosexinthecityconfidence, Ex-Purge, marriage, New Year's Resolutions, self esteem, Self Love

I know I said that I wasn’t going to make New Year’s Resolutions this year, but I’m changing my mind already. Ish. Rather than making all these silly resolutions that I’m no doubt going to bail on within a few days or weeks, I’ve decided to create a slightly more long-term strategy than that, to get my life back on track. I’ve come up with a few things that I think are ‘flaws’ of mine, that I should work on to make better. 1 – I VOW TO STOP FALLING…

Big Love Dating My Mr. Grey

The Truth about Long-Distance Relationships

September 5, 2012January 22, 2020 notsosexinthecityEx-Purge, long distance relationship, love1 Comment

I haven’t blogged for a while, and let me tell you why: NOTHING has happened. Literally nothing. Nada. There’s nothing going on in my life. Boring. I still haven’t had *that conversation* with My Mr. Grey, so things are still floating in the air like a stinking fart. In my head, we’re in a relationship, so I’m not actively pursuing anyone else. It’s been a month since I last saw him and I’ve not had sex at all since then. It feels like it’s been a year, not a month.…