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The Zoo

July 6, 2013March 18, 2020 notsosexinthecityCrushin’, dating, falling in love, Favourites, Moving On, new love, Zoo

I’m in very serious trouble. Like, super serious trouble. I’ve just spent another AMAZING 24 hours with the AMAZING Jock, and I can say one thing with absolute honesty: he rocks my fucking world. I definitely wasn’t this happy with One Ball at the beginning. I didn’t feel like this. He made me happy and stuff but this is something else. I’m in a constant state of giggly butterflies, wishing the hours away until I can see him next, literally running to my phone whenever it makes a vibrating noise…

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Third Date (Dick) Analysis

June 30, 2013March 17, 2020 notsosexinthecityBad Drunk Decisions, Camping, Crushin’, dating, Dicks Dicks Dicks, First-Time Sex, Firsts, Moving On, Reflection, Sexual Chemistry

So … I don’t really know where to start. I’ve definitely got fuck-tinted spectacles on as far as Jock is concerned. Our camping third date went so perfectly, even with some of the sex awkwardness, that I’m just kinda walking around on cloud nine, blushing every now and again as I remember some of the naughty stuff we did. And speaking of naughty, I fucked up. We fucked up. When we woke up in the morning, a little hungover, ravenously hungry, and more than little in need of hydration, we…

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The Tale of the 24 Hour Third Date

June 29, 2013March 31, 2020 notsosexinthecityAnxiety, Camping, Crushin’, cunnilingus, dating, First-Time Sex, Firsts, In Public, Kiss, Moving On, oral sex, orgasms, Sexual Chemistry

Jock and I went on our third date. It was wonderful. We went camping and all this cute shit happened and YES WE FUCKED AND I KNOW THAT’S WHAT YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW. He agreed to get everything sorted as I had work during the day — and that’s just what he did. He found the cutest little campsite, organised it so that it would be just us on the site, sorted out a tent, grabbed food and beers, and even decorated the tent and surrounding space with solar-powered…

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48 Hours to Go: First Night Nerves

June 25, 2013March 14, 2020 notsosexinthecityAnxiety, Bikini Wax, Body Image, dating, Moving On, self esteem, self-harm, single

It’s exactly 48 hours until my next date with Jock. I think it’s going to be *the* date; the one where we fuck for the first time. Anxiety is taking over and I’m overthinking absolutely everything. I’m beyond nervous. That’s how I know I really like him: the thought of being in his presence makes me so nervous that I just can’t think straight. I’m not prepared for this. I wanted to book a bikini wax but I’m not sure I’ll have time for it. Between you and me, things…

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The Actual Second Date

June 24, 2013March 14, 2020 notsosexinthecityCrushin’, dating, Dominant, fantasies, In Public, Moving On, Sexual Chemistry, single, Tease

Fuck it, I’ve decided to completely ignore the fact that One Ball might be reading my blog and tell you all about my second date with the fabulous Jock. Because he really is totally fabulous. I told you in my last post that he was more touchy-feely this time around; well, there was more kissing this time around too. We parked up to “have a cigarette” which we both knew was code for making out in his car. We’re still playing it cool and not taking things too far, but…

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Date Number Two: An Emotional Goodbye?

June 23, 2013March 14, 2020 notsosexinthecityAnxiety, Betrayal, Breakups, dating, Ex-Purge, fail, Fighting, heartbreak, Lies, Moving On, Privacy, Soldiers1 Comment

One Ball read my fucking blog. Because of course he wasn’t going to let our breakup go by easy. I can’t work out if this is going to be a big fuck-you blog post to him, or a big bye-bye blog post to you lot. I’m battling two very different sides of myself right now. Let me tell you the story of what happened on my second date with Jock. Jock and I went shopping for our second date, stopped to have some coffees, and then he dropped me home…

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I Like Slow, Sensual Sex …

June 21, 2013March 14, 2020 notsosexinthecitycar sex, Crushin’, dating, dirty talk, Dominant, fantasies, In Public, Kiss, Moving On, Sexual Chemistry, single, Tease

So, this new guy [Jock] has got me totally figured out already. Well, he hasn’t, but he’s going the right way. We’ve been texting and calling each other in that way that new potential lovers do: constant questions and answers, flirty banter, naughty conversations that you would berate other boys for. I thought I might’ve grown bored of him by now. No sign of that, though. The stuff he’s saying to me is driving me crazy. Whether I ‘like’ him or not, I’m definitely lusting after him. But I’m wondering…

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The Tale of the 11 Hour First Date

June 19, 2013March 18, 2020 notsosexinthecityCrushin’, dating, Dating Apps, First Dates, First Kiss, Firsts, Kiss, Moving On, Plenty of Fish, Sexual Chemistry, single

So … yeah, I went on a date with Jock. The date ended up being 11 hours long. I had so much fun with him I didn’t realise where the time had gone, and neither did he. Peeps, I’m in SERIOUS trouble. Our date was cute, cheap, and very cheerful. We chose the arcades and some seaside fun, making plans to eat ice cream and paddle on the beach and frolic in the sunshine. He tried to win me a toy at the arcades, on the grabber machines, but he…