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Premature Ejaculation: Here’s What I’d Want You to Do

I don’t have a penis, so I don’t and can’t know how it would feel to experience premature ejaculation. What I can know, though, is how I felt/would feel – and what I would want my penis-having lover to do about it.

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How to Give Her the Best Head of Her Life (According to Me)

Getting head, oral, licking pussy, cunnilingus, whatever you want to call it, I’ve been blessed with both the best and worst of it, so I thought I’d write a guide on how to give her the best head of her life – according to me.

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The Smart & Safe Guide to Sending Nudes (22 Tips)

There comes a point in many a relationship where the heat turns up and, well, the chat gets a little flirty. They might start talking about sending nudes… but you’re not really sure what that means or what to do about it. Thankfully, ya girl (that's me) is here to explain everything, including the law, how to send nudes as safely as possible, and what…

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Sexual Hoop-Jumping

How many of you would demand that a partner get him or herself sexually checked out before you agreed to hop in the sack with them? I should do a twitter poll on this, you know. It would be super interesting to see the results. Because I do that. Exactly that. I've done it a few times. I DEMAND that a partner gets themselves sexually checked…

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Stealthing: Stealth Has a Brand New Meaning

If you haven't heard about the dating term 'stealthing,' then it's about time you did. Dangerous, violating, and disrespectful - and that's just the tip of the iceberg!

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Guest Post – Splosh by @GeekyTemptress

I am beyond excited to bring to you the blog's first ever guest post and who better to write it than the delectable @GeekyTemptress?  Happy reading...  Splosh I really love sex silly amounts and then I really love food. Thankfully sploshing exists and there can usually be had a myriad of giggling fun times from your very own fridge. There's also some huge things NOT to…

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#FingerBangMe – What Happened to Fingering Anyway?

I found myself embroiled in a Twitter chat last night about the decline of finger-banging. Oh, this is definitely a NSFW post by the way. I'm not beating around the bush (pun definitely intended), I'm talking fingering, finger-blasting, a good seeing-to with some deft digits... The decline of finger-banging is something I've definitely noticed as I've gotten older. I thought it was an age thing…

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