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Gobshitery

Dear Santa (My Christmas Wishlist)

I've been a really good girl this year. Mostly. I haven't gotten myself into any trouble, anyway, which is the…

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The Tweets I Didn’t Send [2020 Edition]

This post contains a lot of opinions, a sprinkling of sarcasm, and some serious bitchiness ~ it's time for the…

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The Tweets I Didn’t Send 2019

I recently delved into my drafts on Twitter for the first time in a very long time (like, forever) and…

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HPV+

That Time I Thought I Had Genital Warts

Back when I thought I was going to have sex again, I got myself STI tested. I hadn’t had sex…

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HPV Negative

Folks, I had good news. Great news, actually! After years of being HPV positive, I have finally tested HPV negative.…

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I Got High and Live-Blogged My Smear

I’ve been a right dickhead and ignored my smear for ages. I should’ve been on one-to-three yearly smears because I…

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Graves' Disease

Graves’ Disease Diagnosis: My Journey

Imagine this: You’re living your life, minding your business, when suddenly your body decides to stage a hostile takeover. Your…

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Mental Health

2025

I thought I was holding things together pretty well in the first half of 2025, but looking back now, that…

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Six Months

I haven't had sex with my boyfriend for over six months. (It's still Bear, by the way.)  Fuck me (literally).…

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Why Won’t I Let Him Touch Me?

My sex drive has entirely changed over the last few years. I probably should have warned you before diving in…

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