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The Smart & Safe Guide to Sending Nudes (22 Tips)

There comes a point in many a relationship where the heat turns…

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Valentine’s Day Erotica: I Should’ve Said Hello

I got on the train and looked around for a seat, not…

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HPV Negative

Folks, I had good news. Great news, actually! After years of being…

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The No-Crap Guide to Love Bombing

Love bombing might sound like an explosion of romance, but it’s often…

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Why Did I Get Soft Ghosted?

A reader sent in the following question, so I figured it was…

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What is the Love Bombing Cycle?

Love bombing: a charming, somewhat insidious phenomenon that starts with roses, poetry,…

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A No-Bullshit Guide to Soft Ghosting in Dating

Dating in the digital age is both exhilarating and overwhelming. With countless…

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21 First Date Safety Tips from an Ex-Slut

So, you’re going on a first date. Super exciting stuff! Super nerve-wracking,…

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I Got High and Live-Blogged My Smear

I’ve been a right dickhead and ignored my smear for ages. I…

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You’ve Missed Her

You've missed her. You kiss her like you mean it, like you’re…

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