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#OnlineDating: A Reality Check.

December 3, 2014January 19, 2017 notsosexinthecity1 Comment

So, I got a comment on one of my last blog posts that actually made me sit and think. Actually, this seems to be happening a lot recently. Quit making me think guys! (But thanks for the inspiration obviously!) I came across this blog post and it was interesting to read and I thought I’d put my 2 pence worth. If you say you’re not having much luck, how about guys like me who are ignored 99.9% of the time? I’ve never asked for a picture over Whatsapp (or any…

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The 15 Rules of a Successful Breakup

November 12, 2014January 15, 2017 notsosexinthecity

Right girls, you want to come out of this alive then you’re going to need to think smart. Unless you want to be THAT girl that is begging on her knees for her boyfriend not to leave her, you need to do things the classy way, the smart way, the right way. You need to learn the rules of a successful breakup, written by someone going through yet another bloody and gruesome breakup. And trust me, this is just one in a looooong line. Are you ready? Sitting comfortably? Got…

When Is Cheating, Cheating?

October 24, 2014September 25, 2019 notsosexinthecity4 Comments

I want to ask a question. What do you define as cheating? My Work Colleague (I should probably think of a better name for her) is having a few issues with her hubby. Let me just give you some background info – she’s in her early twenties, he’s in his mid-to-late thirties, they’ve been married two years yesterday, and they have an almost-one-year-old child. Struggling financially, they moved back in with her parents (and it’s a bit of a mess) to save up for the downpayment on a mortgage rather…

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5 Ways You Know You’ve Pissed A Girl Off (And How To Sort It)

July 2, 2014May 25, 2017 notsosexinthecity4 Comments

5 Ways You Know You’ve Pissed A Girl Off (And How To Sort It) 1 – Fine. If you can’t recognise this one by now, you may as well give up all hope. If she says “Fine” to you, you’re pretty much fucked already. She’s not happy. It might be wise to just apologise. Even if you think you’ve done nothing wrong, just apologise. It’s the only way out. 2 – One word answers. When has anything to do with your girlfriend been a word-one thing? She’s full of words.…

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11 Things Guys Will Never Understand About Periods

June 25, 2014January 16, 2017 notsosexinthecity

1. Opening a tampon wrapper so quietly in a public bathroom (or at his house) it could almost be a military operation, and takes so long, you think she’s opened her guts in there. 2. Trying to find a place to dispose of said tampon wrapper when you realise there is no garbage can in the bathroom. Who doesn’t have a garbage can in their bathroom? In order to get rid of the wrapper, you either need to bundle it up and put it in your pocket to secretly dispose…