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NIGHT 3 (and 4): Stuffing, Sliding and Sleeping

January 9, 2013February 13, 2020 notsosexinthecityexperimenting, falling in love, long distance relationship, love, Lubricant, new love, oral sex, Pussyjob, Tease

“You’ll need to go gently with me tonight, I’m a little sore,” I told One Ball as we got into bed. It was his third night staying at mine, and we’d already had two pretty adventurous, energetic nights. In case you missed them – Night 1: Electro-Sex Night 2: Nine and a Half Weeks And then there we were: night three. “I’ll go slow and use lots of lubricant. Just tell me if it gets too much,” he replied, slowly shuffling down the bed and reaching up for my briefs.…

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Fuck me, I Love You

January 6, 2013February 5, 2020 notsosexinthecityfalling in love, love, new love

Fuck! I’ve been dying to update my blog for ages. I’m so sorry for the wait, people, but I’ve had company. (If you follow me on Twitter, you’ll know.) The lovely One Ball came to stay with me for four days, and he left a little over ten hours ago. As much as I’m enjoying the time to myself again, I sure am missing him already. But I know just what I can do to distract myself … I can tell you about what we got up to! Oh my…

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T-Minus 4 Sleeps

December 29, 2012February 3, 2020 notsosexinthecityfalling in love, long distance relationship, love, new love, The Ick

I’m seeing One Ball in T-minus 4 days. I’m excited, folks, but I’m also stressed. Do you want to know why? Because there is so much stuff to do and not enough time to do it all. Let me invite you into my pre-fuck ritual … I need to shave my legs. I actually prefer epilating but I need to do that a week before the ‘event’, and then again a couple of days after that to make sure that all of the hairs are gone, even the little ones.…

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L-Word Urges

December 15, 2012February 1, 2020 notsosexinthecityfalling in love, Firsts, love, new love4 Comments

I keep having these L-word urges, people. I’ve wanted to say the L-word to One Ball at every moment of every day, for the last few days. It’s literally all I can think about. *He’s* all I can think about. And … I think he might feel the same. I sure hope he does. We’ve had a few really good chats the past couple of days. Text chats, I mean. We send love heart emojis in our text messages, and just the other day, we were messing around when he…

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A Naughty Weekend, The L-Word & Running into a Bathroom Door

December 3, 2012January 31, 2020 notsosexinthecityBlindfold, Bondage, falling in love, love, Lubricant, new love, oral sex, Tie Me Up6 Comments

Sooooooo, after a bit of huffing and puffing, I finally made it on my naughty weekend away to see One Ball. It was a bit touch and go at first. I was up-and-down about the idea of going because I’ve been a bit emotional recently, especially with my period looming. Thankfully, I managed to keep it at bay for long enough to attempt my kinky weekend away. But that’s pretty much where the good shit ended. I tried to find a bikini wax EVERYWHERE. Nowhere had appointments. I was so…

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I Think I’m Falling

November 13, 2012January 31, 2020 notsosexinthecityfalling in love, love, new love6 Comments

I think I may be in trouble. I think I might care for One Ball more than I thought I did. Or my feelings have grown for him, I’m not sure. He’s gone back to where he normally works, a few hours drive from where I live, and he’s literally the only thing I can think about. He came to my work yesterday to say goodbye and it was almost too painful to bear. Okay, that might be a bit dramatic, but that’s how it felt. It suddenly felt very…