Crushin’

All the Right Things

June 18, 2013March 14, 2020 notsosexinthecityBreakups, Crushin’, Dating Apps, Moving On, Plenty of Fish, Soldiers

I don’t have time for a relationship. I’m not over my ex yet. I literally broke up with a completely different ex less than a week ago. Those are all the reasons I should stop talking to the hunky Jock who’s been taking up all of my time. We haven’t met yet, but man have we talked. And talked. And talked. It’s like we can talk forever, about anything, without ever getting bored. You know what that means, don’t you? My head’s getting all carried away with itself. I can’t…

Jock My Dating Life One Ball

Out With the Old, In With the New?

June 15, 2013March 11, 2020 notsosexinthecityBreakups, Crushin’, Dating Apps, Moving On, Plenty of Fish, Soldiers

I did it. I broke up with One Ball. I broke up with him because I didn’t have time for a relationship, and definitely not the relationship we were trying to have. I’m trying to spin too many plates at once. It’s not him, it’s me. Yadda, yadda, yadda. So, I decided to remove myself from all dating applications and sites and NOT look for a man. I need to focus on myself for a while. Get my life back on track, then find time to insert a partner into…

My Dating Life One Ball

May 19, 2013March 11, 2020 notsosexinthecityBetrayal, Breakups, cheating, Crushin’, Getting the Ick, long distance relationship, My Best Friend Fetish, Soldiers

It’s been an interesting weekend, peeps. The crush with One Ball’s best friend that I talked about in my previous post? Yep, it’s grown in intensity. I’ve started imagining his face when I’m fucking myself with a toy at night. Worse than that: I’ve started imagining his face when I’m fucking One Ball. That’s bad, right? Like … really, really bad. I’m not doing it deliberately. It’s happening by accident, and it’s taking everything in me not to call my boyfriend by his best friend’s name. But it seemed to…

My Dating Life One Ball

Advice, Please?

May 15, 2013March 11, 2020 notsosexinthecityBetrayal, Breakups, Crushin’, fantasies, Getting the Ick, long distance relationship, My Best Friend Fetish, Soldiers3 Comments

Right, peeps, I need your help. I feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. I don’t know what to do about One Ball and I. Should we break up? Should I just do it and be done with it? Or is he a good guy that deserves a bit more time? And before you answer that question, I have something to tell you that’ll complicate things even further … I’m starting to crush on his best friend. (As if the My Mr. Grey stuff wasn’t complication…